That's only if you're broke.Women are looking at you as a long term "investment" and they wanna know you inside and out before they'll seal the deal
For men it's more like finding a "parking" spot although not as obcessive as George Costanza circling the block a dozen times waiting for that perfect one......Nope usually just a "spot" will "suffice"
We're more like a depreciating asset.Here's is a quarter give some woman a call when you reach maturity.
Big SOS for you men are not a investment....Men are human beings with feelings, emotions, pride, self respect, compassion.
A parking spot....When a man and a woman build a nest together....You just watch that nest be protected by the alpha male....and I might add a alpha female will throw rocks at his friends the first time one of them suggest putting his slips under the bed while the alpha male is away. So some good advice watch where you try to park.